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๐ค Is it OK to flirt with chatbots?

Happy Monday! Itโs October 9 โ people are talking about Israelโs declaration of war on Hamas, the debate over chatbot cheating, and more.
As always, weโve summarized and organized the different shades of perspective, so you can see the big picture quickly.
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๐ฎ๐ฑ In the news: Israelโs declaration of war
After a devastating attack in Gaza, Israel officially declared war on Hamas. Critics debate who's to blame, and how the war will end.

๐ฎ๐ฑ CNN: Israel officially declared war on Hamas after a surprise assault killed 800+ Israelis near the Gaza-Israel border. Netanyahu promised "mighty vengeance" for those killed.
๐ฎ๐ฑ The WSJ said this is Israel's chance to end Hamas once and for all, and free the millions of Gazans trapped under authoritarian rule. Biden should pledge his support immediately.
๐ฎ๐ฑ Haaretz thinks Israel has already lost, no matter what happens. This is the most significant government failure since the October War under Golda Meir. Itโs time for the fascists in the Israeli government to leave.
๐ฎ๐ฑ The NYT said Netanyahu is to blame. He pursued "politics of division" instead of national security interests. It's already bad, but it will get worse if Saudi Arabia and Iran get involved.
๐ฎ๐ฑ Another NYT opinion was that this war might be what brings peace to the region. The Hamas attack will likely galvanize international support for Israel, and could give Gaza back to the people.
๐ค Cultural trend: Is it OK to flirt with chatbots?
Should flirting/sexting with an AI chatbot considered cheating, or is it a harmless way to blow off steam and practice flirting skills?

๐ค The Guardian: One user said it's a harmless way to "refresh" a relationship that's gone stale. But relationship counselor Peter Saddington says it's much better to address the staleness head-on.
๐ค But comedian David Chawner said you're chatting with "bits of plastic", not a real person. How can that be considered cheating?
๐ค Rolling Stone thinks itโs cheating if you treat the bot like a real person. Also, it seems like bots are pretty good at tricking people โ if your partner falls for it, they're both unfaithful and stupid. Get rid of them!
๐ค A Reddit thread on r/Singularity thread said each relationship is different. In many cases, the bot can improve someone's flirting skills โ and your partner might really appreciate that.
Shades poll: Is it OK to flirt/sext with a chatbot? |
Quick hits
๐ฎ๐ฑ The Biden administration ordered military ships and aircraft to move closer to Israel in the aftermath of the Hamas attack. (Al Jazeera)
โซ The Taliban said an earthquake in Afghanistan killed at least 2,400 people โ making it one of the deadliest earthquakes of 2023. (Reuters)
๐คธโโ๏ธ Simone Biles won her 22nd world championship title at the World Artistic Gymnastics Championships. (CNN)
๐ Red Bull's Max Verstappen clinched his 3rd consecutive F1 title after finishing 2nd in the Qatar Grand Prix sprint race. (Yahoo Sports)
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- Jeff (co-founder of Shades)